Great news, they liked your profile enough to invite you on a date. You're excited, you barely know what to wear let alone what they will ask you and how best to answer those questions. Of course, a job interview and a date with a potential suitor are not exactly the same but if you think of them as the same, you can prepare better for an interview.
Remember these two laws.
Although we can never say one date is identical to another, there are the usual questions and conversations that occur on every first date when people get to know one another. Similarly, there are guidelines and some obvious questions you should prepare for when going to an interview. But the best way to summarize the many commandments on interviews, is through these 2 laws.
It's not a blind date.
It's not about you.
Let me explain how.
1. It's not a blind date.
As the one who applied for the job, you're also interested in a relationship with them as much as they are looking for someone. So the least you can do is:
Research the company: Find out about your potential future spouse. Understand their mission, values, products/services, and recent news. This will show that you're not just interested in the S-word, a salary, but that you're genuinely interested in the company itself. And your responses, tailored with this knowledge, will be attractive.
Understand the job description: Find the things you have in common. Analyze the job requirements and make a list of the skills and experiences you possess that align with the role. Yes, they do have your CV, but can you pitch it to them? Show them why you applied and how you're the one they are looking for.
Practice common interview questions: Confidence is attractive. You're confident when you're prepared. Be prepared! Prepare responses to common interview questions such as "Tell me about yourself", "Why should we hire you?" or "Tell us about a time when you...". When responding, use the STAR method (Situation, Task, Action, Result) to structure your responses. Practice your answers to ensure they are concise, confident, and showcase your skills and experiences.
Therefore, know who you're going to meet and understand the value you both bring to the potential relationship. #RelationshipsMatter #TheInterview
2. It's not about you.
Yes, they asked you out on a date which means they were impressed by your profile. But they are not thinking about you. They just don't want to make the mistake of committing to someone who isn't "the one". They have the ring - the job offer - so you can only imagine the stress they are going through. The least you can do is:
Dress appropriately: Put on something they will like. Match their style. You need to show them that you will look good together. Dress professionally. Adhere to the company's dress code or opt for a slightly more formal attire. Your appearance should convey professionalism and respect for the interview process.
Arrive early: Never keep them waiting. Respect their time. You might have a lot of it, don't assume they do too. So, plan your route in advance and aim to arrive 10-15 minutes early. This will also allow you to collect your thoughts and calm your nerves.
Be confident and attentive: Stop thinking about the S-word. Listen and respond. Maintain good eye contact and body-language, speak clearly, and display confidence in your abilities. Listen actively to the interviewer, showing genuine interest by engaging in the conversation. Remember to breathe and take your time when answering questions.
Follow up with a thank-you note: Don't wait for 3 days to see if there'll be a second date. Send a message now. After the interview, send a personalized thank-you email or note to each interviewer, expressing your gratitude for the opportunity and reiterating your interest in the position. This gesture demonstrates professionalism and keeps you fresh in their minds.
Again, know who you're going to meet and understand the value you both bring to the potential relationship. #RelationshipsMatter #TheInterview
A successful interview is a combination of preparation, confidence, and being your best self. If you remember these 2 laws, you can increase your chances of making a positive impression and landing the job. All the best!
Signed, your friend and chief relationship advisor
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